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Social Media is Not a Substitute for Building Relationships

By May 11, 2016February 9th, 2019No Comments
group of friends celebrating, multi-ethnic, 30 to 40 somethings, clinking wine glasses, relationship building

Just posted this on Instagram. Thought I would share it. Something I am very passionate about– the connecting, the bonding, the relationship building humans need and thrive on.

People tend to forget we all started off as strangers… our spouses, our best friends, our relatives before they became our grandparents, our aunts and uncles, and so forth. Everyone was first a stranger. And only through physical communication was that relationship cemented.

As a communication professional, adjunct professor teaching communication, and voracious reader, I/we are witnessing a relationship building chasm…

Here’s what I posted on Instagram:

Overlay on the Image:  Do you remember the day your best friend was a stranger? It all starts THAT first “day.”

I truly believe we need to get back to building relationships in a physical way… in meetings, over food, by telephone, networking, and more. Social media is not a replacement or substitute. It’s just another way. You truly can’t get to know someone until you look them in the eye. To hear their stories. To see their body language. To hear the vocal nuances. Video comes close. Words alone will never replace solid relationship building in business.

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Ira Koretsky

Ira Koretsky has built The Chief Storyteller® into one of the most recognized names in communication, especially business storytelling. He has delivered over 500 keynote presentations and workshops in nearly a dozen countries, in more than one hundred cities, across 30 plus industries. His specialties are simplifying the complex and communicating when the stakes are high. He is also an adjunct professor in public speaking and storytelling at the University of Maryland's Business School. With over 25 years of experience, he is a sought-after storytelling coach, global speaker, trainer, consultant, communication coach, and public speaking coach.